ARE YOU SICK AND TIRED OF FEELING "UNLOVED"?
ARE YOU THE WOMAN?
Are you sick and tired of being the woman or girlfriend who loves that special man in your life, only to frequently feel “unloved”?
Are you sick and tired of simply wanting to have a more loving relationship with your husband or boyfriend and that man in your life never seems to understand that all you want is to be loved?
Have you lost the excitement of spontaneously loving and feeling loved by the man in your life, because he always seems to misunderstand, hesitate, withdraw or become angry when you verbalize that you want to be loved?
Are you afraid to verbalize that you feel "unloved" and want to be loved, because your man’s failure to understand and love you spontaneously becomes too painful?
Are you very determined to feel loved and continue to communicate your need to feel loved, only to have increasingly, painful arguments and greater distance in your relationships?
ARE YOU THE MAN?
Are you sick and tired of being the husband or boyfriend who loves that special woman in your life, only to frequently hear the special woman in your life verbalize she is feeling “unloved again by you”?
Are you sick and tired of feeling nagged by the woman in your life? Do you perceive the woman in your life as demanding to be loved? Do you feel the woman in your life never seems satisfied by you?
Do you feel criticized and wonder what you did wrong, when the woman in your life pleads with you that she is feeling “unloved”?
Do you feel that you can never love your woman enough? Do you
sometimes withdraw or become angry, because of feeling inadequate and unable to satisfy your woman?
FEELING UNLOVED IS INEVITABLE
There is no doubt that feeling "unloved" is inevitable in relationships between men and women. Unfortunately, communication about feeling "unloved" can intensify what is wrong in a relationship rather than bringing greater closeness, emotional warmth, sensitivity and spontaneity in loving and feeling loved.
There is hope for you and your relationships even when you have had great disappointments and conflicts over feeling "unloved"! Even current conflicts over feeling unloved in your relationships can be overcome and transformed into having the loving relationships you've always wanted and need. To reduce conflicts over feeling unloved, love! Then love, love and love!
Unfortunately, people usually continue with their usual and customary ways of coping with the reality of feeling "unloved". As long as people continue to express their usual and customary behaviors instead of loving, feelings of being unloved will intensify and destroy the relationship.
NURTURING WAYS TO THINK ABOUT FEELING "UNLOVED"
It is important to realize that feeling "unloved" is normal and occurs in all relationships.
It is important to realize that when you or your significant other feels "unloved", it is not a sign that you have a bad relationship.
It is important to realize that when your significant other tells you he or she feels "unloved", it is not a criticism or an attack on you.
It is important to realize that when you feel “unloved", it does not mean that
your significant other has fallen out of love with you or does not love you.
It is important to realize that when your significant other tells you he or she feels "unloved", that you have not failed in your loving.
It is important to realize that feeling "unloved" is not bad and in fact is good, if you want a better relationship.
It is important to realize that a woman or man's communication of feeling “unloved", is motivated to passionately, jump start a loving relationship immediately!
THERE IS HOPE FOR BOTH WOMEN AND MEN
TO LOVE AND FEEL LOVED!
With the mental fitness program, I Live within the Environment Created by My Choices there are 15 creative ways for turning feelings of being "unloved" into feelings of being loved for both the man and woman. Your relationship can become a relationship of love and feeling loved by applying the choices in I Live within the Environment Created by My Choices. If you want more information on I Live within the Environment Created by my Choices, visit our website at www.northstarmentalfitness.com
If you want a very loving spontaneous relationship with your significant other, we want to provide you with the secrets and skills to love and feel loved in your relationships.
If you want to reduce the emotional conflicts and separation triggered by you or your partner feeling "unloved", we want to provide you with the choices to overcome these problems. Our goal is for you to love and feel loved in your relationships.
Our mission for you is: We want you to feel happy, peace of mind, freedom and control over your life, because you are LOVING your significant other and your significant other is LOVING you.
I Live within the Environment Created by My Choices and the North Star Mental Fitness Program can reduce conflicts associated with feeling "unloved" and transform feelings of being "unloved" into loving relationships!
We want you to have the skills, fitness and experience of turning feelings of being "unloved" into feeling “loved” now and forever.
Remember, You Live in the Environment Created by Your Choices!
Life and Mental Fitness Coach