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July 26, 2007



Ok. I understand about the part "detachted involvement." We as parents are not perfect, no matter how hard we try. We all want the best for them, but young adults are always going to make their own decisions, wheather we like it or not. I have always told my children as far back as I can remember that no matter what their situation may be, I am their Mom and I will never leave them emotionally, or any other way. I used to tell myself when they were in the terrible teenage period that I couldn't wait till they turned 18, they would move away and at last a little piece for the parents. Not so, I have found. They are just bigger problems. Non the less I can never abandon my kids, unless it were something awful,;eg murder, dui's, really devestating things. They would have to pay the price for such things, But I would still love them and be there for them when they need me. I have always tried to pick the worst things to deal with, in other words don't sweat the smaller things. As for guilt, well I also feel a little guilt is a good dose of medicine. I may not be right, but above all I know my "young men" have commpassion, they are smart, and they know right from wrong. I learned it is okay to let your kids, in our situation, to let them know when they were breaking my heart, and how worried it made me. If that is a guilt trip I have layed on them, so be it. They are compassionate kids and hard workers, they just had to move away and grow up, without me, but have taken with them what I have tried to instill in them. Yes, they still ask for help, usually money, but they appear to be doing the right things with it. If I learn different they would not even think to call me for more as they know when they have screwed up. Our kids are always our kids, no matter what.

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